I'm Seriously P.O.'d

I Am Seriously P.O.’d

Friends, I am super P.O.’d. The worse part is that I’m not just P.O.’d at the person who upset me. I’m even more P.O.’d with myself for still being so P.O.’d. I would desperately like to stop this “extra,” self-inflicted pain and suffering. What am I to do?

Overwhelmed? Be Here Now

Overwhelmed? Be Here Now

The summer after my brother died, something deep within me learned the power of adjusting the aperture of my awareness. Keeping my metaphorical lens as small as possible helped me realize that – moment to moment – I was OK. This same strategy is helping me to feel more settled and calm in the wake of the national and global chaos of the last months.

The Pleasure of a Job Done Well

The Pleasure of a Job Done Well

I’ve always been in awe of people who can fix things and make things. Until this week IKEA shelves were the extent of my handy-ness. But now I know how to use an orbital sander and – it surprises me as I bet it will surprise you – I have brand new mindfulness practice to help keep me in the present moment.

How Old Do You Feel

How Old Do You Feel?

Is it unfair that my husband feels in the prime of his life while I’m creaking around in an unfamiliar and ancient body? Heck yes. But upon reflection, I’ll take it. My body might at times feel like it’s 90, but inside I feel 35 – ready to learn, ready to share, ready to soak up the joys of life that are always sparkling within “the rest of it” – and that is really all that matters.

Wonder and Awe When Life Gets Big

Wonder and Awe When Life Gets Big

In the face of the hugeness and mystery of the Grand Canyon, I experienced the relief of surrendering to the unknown. Could I learn to receive my real-life moments “at the edge” with even a smidge of the wonder and awe that I felt on the edge of the Grand Canyon? I really hope so.

Bon Voyage. Travel Well.

Bon Voyage. Travel Well.

My first real trip was a sprint through Europe. I’ve learned over time that a more leisurely pace allows my travels to change me – which is all to say that the old adage might be right. It’s not the destination but the journey itself that matters.

Saying Goodbye Can Feel Like Saying Hello

We Never See the Whole Person, But We Can Try

At a dear friend’s funeral, listening to the remembrances made me realize how very many people she had impacted through her relatively quiet life. What if – on days when we’re feeling small and a little insignificant – we could remember this? That we matter? That the world is a better place because we’re in it? That would be a wonderful way to honor my friend’s life.

Does Any of This Really Matter

Does Any of This Really Matter?

Sometimes, in the face of it all, it can seem kind of ridiculous to think that stepping on my yoga mat or sitting down to journal or pray is even worth it. But it is. It really is. Every time we nurture the good and hopeful in our own heart, we add to the good and hopeful in the world. And that is a very good and very meaningful and very important thing indeed.